As you all know, my sweet little Hattie Cat recently turned 1 (I honestly have no idea how that happened so fast). We LOVE birthdays here in the McDermott house and we love parties… Anyone remember Stella’s tea party? Or Liam’s Ghost Buster’s themed party? I believe that love is in the details and I just love myself some details...
With that in mind, I thought long and hard about what to do for Miss Hattie's first birthday. We decided to throw a tea party (because as you know, Hattie loves to copy her big sister Stella), but this was no ordinary tea party. It was Mad Hattie’s tea party! We decided to go with an Alice in Wonderland theme, and throw a fun and crazy tea party for our very own Mad Hattie.
Despite the damp weather, the party was a hit. The food was delicious, the costumes were spot on, and Hattie had an amazing time. The best part? Our little birthday girl took her FIRST steps (which we got on camera! Videos coming soon…)!
Here is my picTORIal of Mad Hattie’s Tea Party!

We transformed our front yard into Wonderland…

Dean made these giant misshaped cards using bosse wood, paint, his saw, and painter’s tape… perfect for Alice and Wonderland theme!
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Here are Dean’s finished card and Mad Hatter’s hat he made. Love a man that can BUILD + CRAFT!

These miscellaneous frames that have been collected from yard sales and flea markets we transformed into...
These brightly colored frames that we hung with fishing wire from our tree. All it took was some hi-shine bright colored spray paint!

Found these large antique playing cards online...

Punched holes in them and hung them from this tree, along with adding all antique furniture from my store InvenTORI to create a lounge area.
We found these colored bottles online that we filled with Nerds candy and cut out little chalkboard tags that we labeled "Eat Me"
Some little vignettes and details we created…

It's all about the details...
Of course we had crafting! The kids could decorate handmade rabbit ears…
Or tiny Mad Hatter hats...
A colorful kid and adult beverage station
Had these labels made on Etsy and then put them on Jones sodas...
Anyone up for a life size game of chess? Made from fabric and plastic playing pieces.
Amazing sweets as usual by Jenny Cookies

Stella helped Jenny decorate the table with sweet treats


Our table
Love this shot with Mitzi in background
We hung paper lanterns from tree to tree above the long Mad Tea Party table



We are all about tradition, and a party in our family wouldn't be complete without a Hansen’s Cakes cake!
Dean spent all morning in the kitchen making tea party appropriate food for the occasion. I was his sous chef

Dean made these incredible puff pastry cups filled with homemade tuna salad with apple and manchego cheese

Before they went into the oven…

He also made BBQ meatballs, which were a hit at the party. Hattie loves when he makes meatballs! #HattieApproved

Dean and I prepping the tea party food. Don't worry, no food went to waste. Dean made a savory bread pudding using all of the leftover sandwich crusts.

All of Dean's amazing food was displayed on cake plates and antique silver platters

We put all of the bite-sized tea party snacks on this gorgeous vintage table

Here's the whole spread. Even the chicken drumsticks had tags that said "Eat Me' attached to them. Super cute!

Introducing the birthday girl herself... Mad Hattie!! This adorable dress was made by Mya Papaya Boutique on Etsy

Mad Hatter Liam


Miss Stella as Alice, picking out her accessories

Finn’s costume (Get it? The bottle labeled "Drink Me" that Alice drank...)

Here's a rare pic... Me taking a pic of my good friend Elizabeth Messina photographing Hattie, that's right, standing all by herself for the first time! Go Hattie!

Mitzi joined in as the White Rabbit

This is where my crafting goddess Stella, aka Alice, spent most of the day

My birthday girl has crafting in her genes too!

Dean getting into character

A little sugar never hurt anyone!

A Wonderland family pic... (Left to right)
Mitzi: The White Rabbit
Liam: Mini Mad Hatter
Mama: Queen of Hearts
Finn: Drink Me bottle
Dean: Papa Hatter
Hattie: Mad Hattie
Stella: Alice
All wearing super cute and comfy retro Crocs that Crocs was so generous to outfit us and all our guests in!!


Here's the moment right before Hattie let go and took her very first steps ever by herself... And we got it on video (coming soon!)

Birthday girl with Daddy, right after she took her first steps!

The big moment!! Make a wish Hattie...

The party turned out exactly as I had imagined it, and the whole family and all of our guests had the best time. We took a bunch of home videos so that we wouldn’t forget a moment, which I’ll be posting soon!
Make sure to come back tomorrow because I’ll be giving away one of the gift bags that all of our guests took home! It was stocked full of everything a busy momista needs, so don’t miss the giveaway!
How did you celebrate your little one’s first birthday?
Love,
T
47 comments
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AMAZING!!! SIMPLY AWESOME!! LOVED ALL OF THE PICTURES AND DECORATIONS AND FOOD YOU ALL DID FANTASTIC!! I WANT TO HAVE ONE OF THESE FOR MY LITTLE GIRLS NOW! -
Thank you for always posting such wonderful pictures. Your parties inspire me when it comes to throwing my kids parties. Will you be posting recipes from the party? The tuna puff pastry and meatballs look amazing, not to mention the chicken wings. :o) Did you make the crafts for the kids? I don't know why I am asking questions, not like Tori has time to answer, ha ha. Great party as always and thanks for sharing your families special moments with us!! -
Will you guys adopt m e?????????? What a magical day you created for H attie and the whole family! Picture perfect. Thanks for sharing this most specdial day!! Congrats to Hattie on her first steps. -
The party looks so fun My sons first birthday was football themed and my daughter is 5 months old I am still thinking about her party. -
We did a Queen of Hearts party for my girls' 5th birthday--we love looking through the photos! It was so much fun! I dressed up as the Queen of Hearts as well! http://homeconfetti.blogspot.com/search?q=queen+of+hearts -
What a beautiful party! Little Hattie was of course, adorable. I celebrated my little boy's first birthday by getting pizza and a big cake with one on it and just letting him dig right in and get as dirty as possible. -
We had a 1 is just ducky theme!!! My daughters birthday is july 1st so the theme went well with a outside party! We had 2 pools set up! bubble station!Sprinkler! And the goody bags had a ducky and also a ducky shaped crayon that i made!!! and other things! -
Sheesh, I don't think you missed a single detail in setting up this Mad Hatter Alice in Wonderland party. I sometimes forget that decorations is not all about balloon art. Makes me feel like talking a class at Home depot to custom create props to offer to my clients. Not! But I was quite impressed. Gotta know the truth! Were the details all your ideas or did you cheat? Either way, doesn't matter, the final results show for one heck of a party. Kudos & 2 thumbs up to you.
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First of all: what a STUNNING view you have from your garden! I was out of breath when I saw the picture of the massive chessgame: what a beautiful place in the world you live in. Speaking of that supersized chessgame: obsessed! And speaking of obsessed: the clocks! And the rest of the pics, it's a bit overwhelming actually. I really don't know what to say else then it's all very, very inspiring.
Glad to see you got to use that big vintage table you brought from Texas again, that table alone is a very good excuse for throwing teaparties. The pics of you and Dean prepping in the kitchen is also very recognizable, love to see you two doing that. Picture of proud daddy Dean and Hattie: priceless. And last but not least: you all looked gorgeous, but Hattie, as a true birthday girl, looked the best (and the tutu looks very DIY-able). Thanks for this insight in your life, I think I will vote for you when it comes to being the president of Party Planning Land. -
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My God Tori this party looks spectacular!! Your kids are so lucky :) I really need to pick up your book and learn how to throw super chic parties. My husbands 40th is coming up and my best friend is having her first baby I need to get on it!! -
I am speechless looking at these pictures and the amount of effort it took to pull this one off! Simply amazing and I am so jealous I wasn't there. :) I was the Queen of Hearts for Halloween (zombiefied for a local Thriller parade) and I love to see that Johnny Depp's Alice in Wonderland is so popular! Great costumes, great props, great food and you had family and friends there to share it with you. So special Tori. I'd love to have a party just like this one day and I am an adult! LOL Happy 1st Birthday to Hattie! She will love looking at these pictures later and Stella and Liam will never forget it! -
Wow. That is probably the most beautiful and well though party I have ever seen! I would love to throw a party like that I have ever bit of creativity but not the cash for it!! One day I can promise you that. Great and amazing job tori! -
Its looks like everyone had a great time. Love the card idea and everyone looks super cute. love love love Finns outfit! so creative! glad to see Patsy is doing well and still involved in the family. -
Awesome!! LOVE IT!! :) So nice Dean, like my husband, LOVES to cook. :) I wish I was that creative for birthday party planning!! -
Ahhhhmazing! As expected though! Thanks for sharing. I adore you & your family! My little man turned one in June & momma went all out. I had picked the then while he was still in my womb!!! Ou last name bailey so did Barnum & bailey circus. I went with vintage circus style. All red & turquoise with polka dots, stripes & chevron. I started planning & making everything when he was 6 mths! It turned out amazing!!! On a side note we just bought a new home & keep telling my hubby I just want you to come help me decorate! Hehe. At least I'll be making a trip up to your store soon for some decorations!!!! Take care of that purty lil family of yours! -
What a GREAT party. Love all pics! The kids look so cute. I'm sure everyone had a blast! Thank you for share with all of us! -
holy cow! you are so awesome at theme party planning! y'all are awesome with your creativity, artsy side, etc. I'm floored! your kids are so lucky to have you ask their parents! Can I be adopted?? :) -
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You are a party planning goddess! I think this is my favorite party of yours so far. I am in the middle of planning my little man's first birthday party and I have chosen Dr. Seuss! Any ideas that you could send my way would be extremely appreciated! Take care and God Bless! -
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Tori and Dean, I love this!!! What a great job with the decor, cakes, and outfits. Looks like so much fun. I hope that ya'll are doing well. A big hello from Texas!!!!!! -
The party looks amazing! But, to me, the nicest part is that you and your mom are spending time together! -
I have been waiting for these pictures!! I love seeing what you come up with. It looks like it was an amazing birthday. I love seeing Patsy, she looks great by the way and your mom too, what a beautiful picture. Love, love your family. Thank you for sharing such a big part of your family life with us.




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